Let Me In | The Obvious Secret To A Happier Mind


I like it, and I also find it a bit ironic that a person like me, who has lost his lung and constantly gets out of breath, has recently developed the habit of enjoying talking; the more engaging the subject and the person, the longer the talk. Moreover, it doesn’t bother me quite the opposite; it gives me energy and a positive boost. But to be fair, sometimes I can talk smoothly, and other times I describe it as a lousy connection where the sound cuts, comes and goes.

Nevertheless, I’m planning that the next destination in my journey would be 'Life Coaching' to help others overcome challenges they might perceive as obstacles and limitations. I had that desire and willingness to help others in me since a younger age, but without the knowledge or experiences, I possess today. So I want to use what I have acquired and share it with those who are willing and open to it. Because at the end of the day, it has to happen by choice, and the person has to be open-minded and ready to receive. 

I genuinely believe I can help others because I’ve lived it and struggled, so I can relate. I know what it’s like to be in that place where it’s hard to get up, it’s heavy, when it’s spinning out of control, and everything feels so out of reach. But I also know that I managed to get through it and allow it to make me grow so I can heal and move on to the next challenge life throws my way.

If I could help brighten someone’s day, if I manage to make even the slightest positive impact on another person’s life, that would be enough; it would be my reward and my dose of dopamine.

Let me in.  See the light of giving transform your heart. It will lift you out of the dark moment and into a happier mind.


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